Do either of us have to change our names?

Can you imagine trying to decide which of you is going to give up your name? There is absolutely no legal reason for anyone, whether in a gay or straight relationship to give up their name, although convention dictates that in a straight marriage the bride will take the groom's surname on marriage.

Some couples choose to "double-barrel" their names, particularly if there are going to be children taking the surname either now or in the future, but most find it easier and more logical to keep the surname they grew up with.

Identity crisis

If you are intending to change your name, and are planning to go on honeymoon immediately after the commitment ceremony, which name do you make the booking in?

While it is nice to take on your new identity from the moment you sign the schedule, that is not necessarily practical when it comes to ensuring a hassle-free honeymoon.

In theory, as long as you have your birth certificate, your passport, and a copy of your civil partnership schedule you can prove who you are, even if the name on the passport (assuming it is not yet updated with your new name) does not match the name on the ticket.

That, however, is only the theory. Our advice is to ensure that your credit cards, passport and any other documentation needed for travel all have the same name - and save yourself a lot of unnecessary stress at check in.

How to change your name

After your civil partnership, you will legally be know as "civil partners". If one of you wishes to change your name, then you will need to make arrangements to do this by change of deed poll. The Citizens Advice Bureau offers help and information regarding this service.

Who should I notify of a name change?

Employer
Inland Revenue
Department of heath and social security
Doctor
Dentist
DVLC
Passport office
Bank
Building society
Credit card and store charge card companies
Finance/loan companies
Premium bond office
Investment companies
Mobile phone provider
Pension provider
Insurance companies
Motoring organisations/AA OR RAC
Professional institutes and bodies
Clubs/societies/associations
Solicitor - check implications on your will